Still looking for that black bag

I've been searching on line for months... no, over a year now... and I'm still looking for THE black bag. Not just any IT bag that lasts for a season and then is never remembered any more, but my own IT bag that I can carry out and have people say: this is gorgeous, what is it and where did you get it? So... my quest goes on and on. There are several bags that I'm eyeing... the Goldenbleu Jordan, the Kooba Meredith or Elisha, the Turnlock from Marc by Marc Jacobs, this bag called SHIH that is unknown but totally to-die for, (https://s.p10.hostingprod.com/@shihshop.com/ssl/store/pop_v_front.php?pic=A&variantid=268&productid=40&namepro=sevilla%20shoulder&namevar=black), a Hayden-Harnett Havana, a Moni Moni Savanah... You see my problem now? My list is too huge to be narroewed down to one. Meanwhile, as my search for THE black bag continues, I kept picking up other miscelaneous bags on the way... not black, but just one of those deals that you come across that you know that you don't need but as soon as you find out that it's out of stock you kick yourself in the foot for not buying it? Of course I rationalize... if only I can save money on these MISC. bags, I will be able to own 3 of those THE black bags that are on my list... but I keep hesitating, hesitating and hesitating....