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Blondes Have More Fun!!! I warned you ladies that I was going to go back to blonde. I've been talking about it for a while now. Truth is, I'm trying hard to move forward, and somehow I hope lighter hair color will help me in the process. I went from platinum to dark redhead when I first met D, and now I feel the need to switch ahead to the soft hand side of things. No more fighting and steaming reconciliations. No more anger and guilt. I'm taking responsability for every single bit of my discontent, or bliss. I live in an old lady's apartment that smells like twenty years ago, but I have a balcony with a view on the East River, and I sat and had a cigarette there tonight for the first time, on my own, after he booty called me and I didn't reply. I will not be that girl who grieves about her menagerie, especially not with dealing with someonew whom I had thought to be special, colourful but authentic; arrogant but fair; and sensitive in a manly way. I loved my boy so much that I forgot about myself. A very common behavior at my age, I agree to it, and I don't mean it was all bad. I just aspire for new horizons, hope for even greater stories. 
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12:28 PM
Your new hair looks great!
Hair is so symbolic when it comes to change. I remember officially cutting ties with a boyfriend of 3 years when I moved to Spain and chopping off my super long hair. It represented change in all regards for me--in my relationship and in life in general. Change is good!
11:03 AM
Wait....
I just caught something: "...and I sat and had a cigarette there tonight for the first time" I thought you quit smoking :|
Just Say NO to booty calls and smoking
08:45 AM
I'm glad...
some one took the leap and dyed there hair...I want to soooooooooo very bad, but my hair is so healthy, shiny, full'o body that I don't want to take a risk. YOu have to post more picks of the new color....
08:29 AM
Feelin' for ya
Ah yes, I remember going blonde right after breaking up with my boyfriend of three years. He'd met someone like, the next day, and I was heart-wrenched. I was a hot mess for a long time, but damn, my hair looked fantastic. And judging from your photo, yours does too. :)
05:49 PM
change is good ~
I think your blonde hair looks fabulous ~ and a major change is always in order when your life is going through major changes. Have fun with your new look and take care! xx Nandi
11:48 AM
Growth...
Vivianne, I remember when my boyfriend of five years cheated just after my mom passed away. I was already destroyed and that just propelled me in to what felt like a giant black hole. It took me a couple of years to recover and feel like a woman again. I was 24 and it was hard but taught me so much about the depths of my strength. The hard times produce the most growth. I am so glad you ignored the booty call. There's no going backwards. To bigger and better, baby! xxx